What/how can I act in bed to appear more passionate?! Do guys like it when women are agressive in bed?
And what can I wear to surprise him without looking like I've tried too hard?!! I've worn suspenders and stockings for him, but what else can I wear that men like?
S*x.. is more than the sum of it's parts... for it to be great... it takes the engagement of two minds... neither should be doing all the work...If you feel it necessary to take it upon yourself to try and make it interesting... then it's obvious he isn't "doing it" for you... and it isn't your fault... some men... figure all they need to bring to the table is an erection... then after a bit of in n' out.. a little kiss kiss... a love ya here and there... now get a way from me so I can sleep... is what it's all about...
what will help both of you.. is a quiet sit down mature conversation about what you would each like to happen between the sheets...
on the other hand if all your interested in is putting on a good show... rent some porn... faking it is easy... to be truly engaged... and connect with each other... takes effort
either way you go...
good luck